December 2011
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Prude Shaming
There’s nothing wrong with having a lot of sex. There’s nothing inherently wrong with polyamory, open relationships, or casual, random hookups. Sex positivity is a wonderful thing. However, there IS something wrong with acting as though that is the “right” way to be sexual, and it is not okay to insist that there is something wrong with someone who doesn’t want those...
Nobody tells an actor, ‘you’re playing a strong-minded man.’ We assume that men...
– Meryl Streep, on being told that she often plays “strong-minded women.”
(via andyouhavetogivethemhope)
Dear interviewer, Please know that I'm in my... →
Dear vodka, You were supposed to make me more... →
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usuallyjusta-tshirt:
if you are going to joke around about rape
may i remind you
to please,
carefully,
place your head
back inside your asshole.
Haircut Rant
I’m grateful for the work hairstylists do. Really, I am. First of all, it’s a service job and one where I’m sure they have to put up with a lot of difficult people, I try not to be one of them. Second, I can’t cut my own hair worth crap. So I really don’t want to sound like an ungrateful brat when I say what I’m about to say.
But seriously, when I tell the...
Daily Pagan News: Solstice Meditation (Under the... →
pagannews:
Tonight is the longest night. As we wait in anticipation for the rebirth of the Sun at dawn, it’s helpful to contemplate where we have been and where we are going in the coming year. It’s important to recognize and celebrate your successes. You have accomplished much, perhaps more than you…
Dear idiot girl mocking me, I would say that one... →
I would have LOVED to say this to a girl in my communications class this year
Dear reader, Some people get confused when a... →
56 worst analogies used in High School Papers →
takemebacktoconstantinople:
skinks:
goombi:
56 worst analogies used in High School Papers
Her eyes were like two brown circles with big black dots in the center.
He was as tall as a 6′3″ tree.
Her face was a perfect oval, like a circle that had its two sides gently compressed by a Thigh Master.
From the…
ahaha, these make me feel so much better about my own writing
Dear cyclists, If you want to assert yourself as a... →
seriously, I’m afraid of cyclists now. thanks a lot.
The "Accidental" Rapist: the importance of... →
Too many play what I call the stoplight game. Traffic signals, of course, have three colors: red for stop, yellow for caution, green for go. Good drivers are taught to stop on “red,” which functions as a “no.” But of course, even at the busiest urban intersections, no light stays red indefinitely. If you wait long enough at a stoplight, every red will become green. And when all we do ...
Feminism starts out being very simple. It starts out being the instinct of a...
– -Gloria Steinem
(via consensual
)
Allison's Bad Day
My phone was set for 9, but I was awoken around 8 when my friends’ next door neighbor kept yelling “you motherfucker!” and “get out!” at someone. Then I finally get off the couch at 9:15, get ready to leave, put some Benadryl on my fresh bedbug bites (that I hope were from work), and head out. I walk several blocks to the subway in cold, windy weather, although...
Police: Future Riot Shields Will Suffocate... →
this scares the shit outta me.
When we say "rape jokes" are bad or saying the...
greaterthanlapsed:
This is not a call for institutionalized censorship, you ignorant jack-asses. It’s a call for self-awareness, empathy, kindness, and possibly even **gasp** self-censorship.
You have the right to say whatever you want. However, I have the right to think you are an asshole.
For fuck’s sake. Why is this all so hard?
I swear, people will fight harder against being a decent...
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